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Funerals, celebrations of life, should respect the values, philosophy and beliefs of the deceased and reflect their life, loves and passions. Think about the wishes of your loved one, but also consider the number of people that might attend; it might influence your choice of venue and how you are going to celebrate them. Please also think of children who would have had a significant relationship with the deceased. My belief is that they should choose if they want to attend. I can help you to start that conversation with them. I welcome babies and children of all ages in my celebrations of life. They can be involved in parts of the ceremony if they wish.
Traditional Funerals - A cremation service in a crematorium
Traditional funerals are popular. If people have been to a funeral before, it’s likely that it’s been in a crematorium. There’s no fuss, it’s seen as a cheaper and simpler option and you can have music and a slide show of photos integral to the service with the option for live streaming / recording the service too
A graveside burial service
Usually graveside services are shorter, especially if mourners are older or frailer. The funeral plan might have specified a burial and the location. It could be a family plot or the plot will have been purchased some time previously.
In the hall of a natural burial ground
Natural or living burial grounds have an ethos of sustainability and environmental protection; for example, GreenAcres call it a ‘One Planet mind-set’.
Modern, or alternative, celebrations of life
There are many similarities and overlaps with services in natural burial grounds, but you have more freedom to choose. It can be a much cheaper option, especially with a direct (unwitnessed) cremation either before or afterwards.
Honouring a life after a direct cremation
Celebrations of Life are for the living; they’re a rite of passage honouring and showing gratitude to the person. They are also a time to mourn, to acknowledge how much they meant to you and to acknowledge your grief.
Planning your own funeral in advance
It might seem as though you are giving up, but talking about your wishes for the celebration of your life can be quite liberating. It also gives you control over where you want the celebration to be and how it will be accomplished; it’s on your terms.
Living funerals
You can reflect on and celebrate your life with the people who have been a part of your life journey and are important to you. Some people would call it a pre-death party.
Memorial services
There might be a significant anniversary that you want to mark after their death. It could be a birthday, the anniversary of their death or what would have been your wedding anniversary. You might like a low-key event marking their lives or a full-on celebration of their life or your lives together. I’m happy to plan it with you.
Looking to celebrate a life with love, joy and gratitude?
Contact us today to see how we can shape a ceremony that gives thanks to life.